Mt 7:1-5
Meditatio/Reflection:
Who am I to judge? Don't judge me! I cringe every time I hear these phrases, and I hear them all too often. How often when we hear someone tell us to not judge them, it seems like they're looking to excuse a certain action, behavior, attitude, etc.? Do we no longer have the capacity to discern right from wrong?
What is Jesus saying here? Is he telling us to not recognize the true faults and failures of each other? Hardly. Otherwise, why would he tell us to "take the speck out of [our] neighbor's eye" once we can "see clearly" (Mt 7:5). I think the emphasis here is twofold. First, don't condemn your neighbor. When we condemn others, we tend to reject any sort of relationship which could result in conversion. Second, don't get all high and mighty and point out other people's faults and failures without considering your own.
But we must consider the good of others, even when it means that we have to confront their objectively harmful choices. Would we want someone to leave us in an addiction to something detrimental to our physical, spiritual, or psychological health? No, we'd want them to judge the thing as harmful and help us get out of it. So too, we should care enough about each other to call each other out in charity. We should also be open to this fraternal correction from others when we are at fault.
It can take a lot of courage and patience to do either. And it's something that I know I need to work on.
Oratio/Thanksgiving:
Lord, thank you for your moral law and for those in my life who offer me fraternal correction in charity.
Oratio/Prayer Intentions:
Lord, help me to be open to those who authentically want what is best for me and who all me out of mediocrity to sanctity.
Mr. Crane's Song of the Day:
Matt Maher: Letting Go
Saint Quote of the Day:
"Don't neglect the practice of fraternal correction, which is a clear sign of supernatural virtue of charity. You may find it hard, for it is easier to be inhibited. It's easier to behave that way, but it's not supernatural. And you will have to render an account to God for such omissions."
- St. Josemaria Escriva